Parenting rules that Meira from Mentalhood swears by
Here’s a question for all parents. Is raising kids the toughest (yet an oddly satisfying) job in the world? While you adore your little ones to your heart’s fullest, they can also be quite a handful (sometimes). But whether you are a new parent (single mum or dad), we believe you guys are doing a great job. Just like you, we have a new member joining our team, Meira Sharma from Mentalhood, dealing with parenthood like a ‘pro.’
Right from Meira’s parenting rulebook, here are some of the smartest hacks that might help you too:
1.Spare time for kids
Meira may not be a working mom but hey, she is a full-time housewife (with many responsibilities). Right from looking after the house to taking care of the kids, she has a lot to do! Despite this, she makes it a point to spend some quality time with her children (all three of them!) So, ladies, take cues from her. All you have to do is take some time out and find a way to bond with your kids (even if that means having impromptu parties, playing pillow fights, braiding hair, etc.)
2.Be as consistent as possible
Now, Meira did a fair job of laying ground rules for her kids. But, hey, what next? Was she consistent? Did she make them follow those regularly? Guess what? She sure did! After establishing those rules, she ensured her children listened to her (come what may).
3.Avoid being ‘too strict’
Okay ladies, allow us to tell you something. The stricter you become, the more spoiled they turn out. Don’t believe us? Meira ke bacho ko hi dekh lo. Her children broke every rule she implied on them. So, mums, take notes. Keep it cool. Lay the ground rules, but give them their space too. Remember the goal here is to be as flexible and let them have a little fun!
4.Be their role model
We hate to break it to you, moms. But your children grow up watching you. Amyra, Nikhil, and Arjun grew up learning, adapting, and taking cues from their mother too. Didn’t they? Even Meira won’t deny that. She knew (right from the start) that every step, action, and word will have an impact on her kids. So, what did she do? Well, she became the best version of herself (for her children!)
5.Rest it out
Let’s face it: Kids are quite a handful. It takes a village to deal with them. But how did Meira look after them single-handedly (without losing it?) Well, her secret was cutting herself some slack. She took breaks whenever motherhood got overwhelming. So, mommies, what are you waiting for? Go out on a date with your girls, indulge in retail therapy, start journaling or plan a spa day. Trust us, you deserve this. And hey, don’t feel guilty about having fun.
Meira, an uber-cool mom, found the right balance in parenting with the above-mentioned rules. You can too! All you have to do is follow the guide (she swears by) and learn more from her. Get the ALTBalaji subscription right away, watch Mentalhood and other popular web series online at 80 paisa per day to become like Meira. Thank us, later!